There’s a day that’s coming. You’ve been dreading it – but it still pushes forward. Like a locomotive that is set on its task and trek, it cannot be diverted or defeated. On some days, we will win the battle. But the War? The War is already decided. We...
In the last post, I introduced the concept of the six things that are done in your head that create all outcomes. Today, I’d like to give you an NLP technique you can use at home to help with a problem around beliefs. Negative beliefs are probably the biggest...
When clients come to me for assistance, the first thing I am thinking about is ‘How do they do this problem?” See, everything we do….everything, has a recipe. When you fold your arms, you fold them either right on top of left… …or left on top of right. Asked...
It feels so good to achieve a goal. A real one. A significant one. Not just ticking off the to-do list on your latest planner. (That’s good too, but doesn’t compare). The feeling when you’ve tinkered, taken action, faced the challenges, been knocked down, gotten up, knocked down again...
This week, we’ve been discussion the impact of conflict on your ability to achieve a result. In the last post, we discussed the first step you can take. So you made a decision to resolve the conflict and although it feels better, the conflict is still there. Here’s what...
In the last post, we started the conversation on dealing with conflicted feelings and thoughts. I mentioned that conflict is a real energy drain on your body and motivation. Having identified a conflict within you, what do you now do? Answer – make a decision. Conflicts cannot exist within...
Do you feel conflicted about a decision? One part of you feels one way and another feels a different way. This may be a sign of congruency-failure. Congruency-Failure sucks your energy, makes you feel weak and breeds on feelings of unworthiness and self doubt. To succeed, you must make...
Today let’s talk about mentors, coaches, support staff, psychologists, spiritual healers and the bible. Too many people are pulling support from too man sources. The human mind was not manufactured to hold so many options available for use. In fact, the more options you have, the less likely you...
In the last post we talked about the simple moments of life being the root of our success and failure. Today let’s talk about our parents. Parents – and let’s be honest, this extends to all family and friends – are unlikely to tell you the truth about your...
Hundreds of thousands of words have been written about success and failure and there are hundreds of thousands more to come. Bookshelves are teeming with volume after volume of sage advice on every area of life. So what could possibly be new in this field? The answer may shock...
