Recently a client in my inner circle mentoring program asked a powerful question. “How can I remove myself from situations where drama is about to erupt?” There are a few strategies you can use, and the first one is Choosing You. This means you come first. This means you...
You can’t barter with God, the universe…or even L. Ron Hubbard. And yet, that is the way we behave. We set goals and believe that we can barter our way through to completion by promising a certain level of action and accountability. If you give me the goal, God,...
Uncertainty is part of our life. It’s simply a segment of what motivates us. As much as we’d like to hold onto certainty, too much of a good thing is a burden, and too much certainty equates to boredom. So we need a level of uncertainty to keep the...
In this second post on Fulfillment, I’d like to consider what we are willing to pay to get it. Now fulfilment is not the same as happiness. Happiness is a state that is linked directly to external events. Something out there makes me happy. Fulfilment is an internal game....
What is the truth that we need to face to become the very best version of ourselves? The answer starts with the acceptance of a simple premise. There’s another level we can get to. Another version of us that is available out there. We reach for it, we strive...
This week, we’ve been discussion the impact of conflict on your ability to achieve a result. In the last post, we discussed the first step you can take. So you made a decision to resolve the conflict and although it feels better, the conflict is still there. Here’s what...
In the last post, we started the conversation on dealing with conflicted feelings and thoughts. I mentioned that conflict is a real energy drain on your body and motivation. Having identified a conflict within you, what do you now do? Answer – make a decision. Conflicts cannot exist within...
