Are you feeling like you’re floundering? Are you feeling like a little sailboat that is being buffeted by life, bouncing from one challenge to another, never getting traction below your feet? The reason may surprise you. It’s kind of counterintuitive. I like the metaphor of the sailboat and the...
Are you feeling hazy in life? More than likely this is because you have hazy goals. You can’t ask the goal-getter that is your unconscious mind to achieve a target that is hazy. That would be like turning on the GPS in your car and entering a suburb rather...
Are you wanting to reach your highest potential? It’s a very common question amongst coaches, but what does it actually mean? Is it even possible? For me, potential is a lazy word. In my new book coming out next year, I go deep into this subject and put forward...
Don’t be a starter-kit self-help evangelist. No one respects that. Copy is filled with tight cliché’s and promises based on what was written in a book seventy years ago. We are beyond that now. People need real solutions to real problems. Right now, people are Outcome-Driven, Certainty-Focussed and Doubt-...
It’s ironic that we search for meaning in the one thing that promises but rarely delivers. Achievement. And then again, there is an egoic sense to that drama. It is our ego that finds meaning in accomplishing ‘things’ and ‘stuff’. The non-specificity there is intentional for our ego doesn’t...
In the last post, we talked about the impact that multi-tasking has on victim consciousness and proposed that multi-tasking is doing more harm than good. In this second excerpt from my new book, the sequel to Finding Zero, we look at the questions which might shed some light on...
If your Life Wheel above were the wheel of your car, you would have a very uneven journey. And isn’t that exactly what happens in life? Our journeys are incredibly uneven, pulled from one direction to another even as we attempt to create the semblance of normality and balance....
In the last post, we talked about role models across a wide area of prosperity. Prosperity is of course beyond financial. If you haven’t read that post yet, please pop back and do that now as today’s post, build on that. Today I want to talk to you specifically...
It’s easy to do, isn’t it? To blame? The reason you are where you are is because of this person, this event or this occurrence. You can blame elegantly as Tony Robbins says, by remembering to blame parents, siblings and those that raised you for all the good you...
In the last post we talked about the impact of Covid-19 and the extreme uncertainty that has spiralled across the world because of the large – and largely publicised – deaths we have all seen on television and computer screens. As we ended that post, I planted a seed...
