To seek truth we must first recognise that there is no objective, total truth that will be accepted by all people. That is not to say truth does not exist, rather, its’ acceptance by everybody is unlikely. Seeking truth then is defined by two questions we must answer: 1...
Are you feeling like you’re floundering? Are you feeling like a little sailboat that is being buffeted by life, bouncing from one challenge to another, never getting traction below your feet? The reason may surprise you. It’s kind of counterintuitive. I like the metaphor of the sailboat and the...
Are you feeling hazy in life? More than likely this is because you have hazy goals. You can’t ask the goal-getter that is your unconscious mind to achieve a target that is hazy. That would be like turning on the GPS in your car and entering a suburb rather...
What you perceive as the Obstacle stopping you is often the very thing that you need to: traverse to get through to overcome to stretch through to grown from to push against to manipulate to make-peace with to let overwhelm you to sit with to process to journal to...
Today’s post is very short and to the point. If you get this, everything you want in your life becomes infinitely easier to accomplish. “Becoming someone you’re not is what has to happen for you to become the person you want to be!” Comment below with your thoughts...
As the world comes face to face with a 1 in 100-year event, we are all coming face to face with challenges to the way we have led our lives. Across the world, industries are shutting down, people are balanced on a precipice of fear vs rationality. Two sentences...
I was struggling with my Niche’. As a coach, I kept on being told that I have to niche’, I have to choose the specific area I focus on. Yet, the whole point of coaching is helping as many people as possible. There’s an old adage in marketing. If...
Robert Heinlein, a classic sci-fi writer from the ’50s and ’60s wrote a book called Stranger in a Strange Land, where the protagonist, Valentine Michael Smith comes to Earth in early adulthood after being raised by Martians. I have to say, that I have not read it, but my father...
There is no magic to getting what you want. It might feel like magic when you look at the far off a goal from this position you are now in. It might feel like it’s going to take a Herculean effort, winning the lottery, a giant windfall from a...
Goal Setting is addictive. I have devoted a full chapter on the Victimhood addiction cycle in my new book, Goal setting is one part of this addiction. But why is it so? Goal setting is deceptive. It feels like we are working on the path to being the best...
